Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Breaking the Barrier With Family

By Lorilei Alexander

April 30, 2014

Yes you have reached adulthood.  You are a mature, reasonable, responsible individual with a good head on your shoulders.  You have a place of your own, you work and you pay the bills.  You may have a family of your own and consider yourself a good spouse and parent.  So why, oh why, is it that visiting relatives can leave you feeling like you are that misunderstood teenager living under your parents’ roof again?  Of course there are many of you that get along splendidly with your parents and siblings and that is a wonderful blessing.  Unfortunately, others are not so blessed.  When it comes time to get together with relatives, some of us suffer through uncomfortable small talk or even cold silence with a family member and some have terse exchanges that make for a bittersweet family gathering.  And some go back and forth between the two.  We cannot delve into all possible reasons why family relationships can be stressful.  Every family has a unique history and dynamic that would require years of psychotherapy in order to understand the ‘Why?’.  The real question that this article will attempt to address is the ‘How?’- How might my family get along better?  How might we develop a stronger family bond?

Communication is one of those words that have been used quite liberally as the key to successful relationships.  But good communication is not simply just talking to another person.  It is putting thought into what you want to say to the other person.  It is talking to the other person with compassion with the end result of developing a stronger bond with that person. Venting your frustrations, sarcasm, and making snide remarks does not qualify as good communication.  The other person may clam up or retort back, but either way, he or she will not feel comfortable opening up to you and that is often how trust is lost. 

According to an ancient Indian text, speech should have the following four qualities.  Take a moment to seek the wisdom in each of these qualities and see how similar or how different they are to your own communication style with your family.

1.  It should be beneficial to the listener (hiit)
When you offer advice to a family member, decide if the counsel you are about to offer will really make the other person’s life better.  For example, nagging them about an extravagant shopping spree might be trivial compared to talking to someone about a serious gambling addiction.  In addition, the listener needs to believe that you are really looking out for his or her best interest.

2.  It should be brief and to the point (miit)
This point does not mean that you should be curt or that your conversation should last less than sixty seconds.  It serves as a reminder that you should pause frequently in order to really listen to the other person and not unconsciously monopolize the conversation.

Read the full article at:  http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/breaking_the_barrier_with_family/ 

The New Face of Radio

By Gerald David

April 25, 2014


The media conglomerate Berkshire Media Group, headquartered in London, UK, recently acquired one of the world’s fastest growing network of radio stations, adding to their growing portfolio of media startups. In a press release, Robert Harrison, CEO of Berkshire Media Group, promised ‘significant changes to both management and programming to restore balance to the network’, and has certainly delivered on that promise.  Before the company had acquired the stations, they had operated as a loose confederation of independent stations for many years. The network content is now managed centrally, giving Berkshire Media Group an enviable platform with which to launch new music and introduce new artists to a global listener base.

Among the stations acquired were powerhouses KMIX Radio Los Angeles, WNYR ‘The Rock’ of New York City, WCTR Chicago and others. The network also includes a collection of top stations in Tokyo, Rio De Janeiro, London, Sydney and other major cities.  The attractiveness of these stations, in addition to their fresh playlist of new artists, is the fact that there are absolutely no commercials, putting the focus solely on the music.


Read the full article at:  http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/the_new_face_of_radio/

Spring Cleaning- Getting Rid of Mental Clutter

By Olivia Carter
April 20, 2014





Usually when people mention spring cleaning, they are referring to tidying up their household or work area, whether it is turning their closets inside out or completely reorganizing their files.  They feel compelled to clean and organize their environment once a year, although for some it should be more often, fed up with the increasing entropy that is surrounding them.  Rarely do people think about de-cluttering and organizing the thoughts that occupy one’s mind.  Much like a computer, you need to organize the files of thoughts in their proper place and delete the files that are no longer needed and are just slowing the system, i.e. you, down.  This type of mental spring cleaning is important so you can go about your day productively, creatively, stress-free and be able to do more of the things that make you happy.

Here are a few tips for spring cleaning your mind:

1.  Pick up a pen and paper and just write down everything that comes to mind.  Ray Bradbury, acclaimed author of Zen in the Art of Writing, believes that free-writing is the key to getting rid of creative blocks and allowing the imagination and ideas to flow freely.

2.  Schedule date nights with your significant other, fun time with the kids, time with your friends and alone time for you.  They are all important and should all be treated as special and sacred.  Spontaneity is fine, but actually having a set day to look forward to every week is better than worrying about when you last went out as a family or when you last saw your best friend.

3.  Stop procrastinating.  All bad habits, even procrastinating, can be replaced by good ones.  If that item in your To Do list refuses to be crossed off and you cannot delegate it, try completely changing your attitude about the task.  Pretend that you are someone who is curious and intrigued by the project and see how much easier it is to get done.

Read the full article at: http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/breaking_the_barrier_with_family/



Yes you have reached adulthood.  You are a mature, reasonable, responsible individual with a good head on your shoulders.  You have a place of your own, you work and you pay the bills.  You may have a family of your own and consider yourself a good spouse and parent.  So why, oh why, is it that visiting relatives can leave you feeling like you are that misunderstood teenager living under your parents’ roof again?  Of course there are many of you that get along splendidly with your parents and siblings and that is a wonderful blessing.  Unfortunately, others are not so blessed.  When it comes time to get together with relatives, some of us suffer through uncomfortable small talk or even cold silence with a family member and some have terse exchanges that make for a bittersweet family gathering.  And some go back and forth between the two.  We cannot delve into all possible reasons why family relationships can be stressful.  Every family has a unique history and dynamic that would require years of psychotherapy in order to understand the ‘Why?’.  The real question that this article will attempt to address is the ‘How?’- How might my family get along better?  How might we develop a stronger family bond? - See more at: http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/breaking_the_barrier_with_family/#sthash.67wnpSSb.dpuf
Yes you have reached adulthood.  You are a mature, reasonable, responsible individual with a good head on your shoulders.  You have a place of your own, you work and you pay the bills.  You may have a family of your own and consider yourself a good spouse and parent.  So why, oh why, is it that visiting relatives can leave you feeling like you are that misunderstood teenager living under your parents’ roof again?  Of course there are many of you that get along splendidly with your parents and siblings and that is a wonderful blessing.  Unfortunately, others are not so blessed.  When it comes time to get together with relatives, some of us suffer through uncomfortable small talk or even cold silence with a family member and some have terse exchanges that make for a bittersweet family gathering.  And some go back and forth between the two.  We cannot delve into all possible reasons why family relationships can be stressful.  Every family has a unique history and dynamic that would require years of psychotherapy in order to understand the ‘Why?’.  The real question that this article will attempt to address is the ‘How?’- How might my family get along better?  How might we develop a stronger family bond? - See more at: http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/breaking_the_barrier_with_family/#sthash.67wnpSSb.dpuf
Yes you have reached adulthood.  You are a mature, reasonable, responsible individual with a good head on your shoulders.  You have a place of your own, you work and you pay the bills.  You may have a family of your own and consider yourself a good spouse and parent.  So why, oh why, is it that visiting relatives can leave you feeling like you are that misunderstood teenager living under your parents’ roof again?  Of course there are many of you that get along splendidly with your parents and siblings and that is a wonderful blessing.  Unfortunately, others are not so blessed.  When it comes time to get together with relatives, some of us suffer through uncomfortable small talk or even cold silence with a family member and some have terse exchanges that make for a bittersweet family gathering.  And some go back and forth between the two.  We cannot delve into all possible reasons why family relationships can be stressful.  Every family has a unique history and dynamic that would require years of psychotherapy in order to understand the ‘Why?’.  The real question that this article will attempt to address is the ‘How?’- How might my family get along better?  How might we develop a stronger family bond? - See more at: http://whoismillennium.com/press_room/breaking_the_barrier_with_family/#sthash.67wnpSSb.dpuf

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Rock Is Back. Rediscovering The Art Of Making Music.



By Daniel Parker
Reprinted with permission from NewsWire
  


The world is familiar with the celebrity musical icons of the day, so much in fact that they don’t even need to be named here.  Even a five-year-old Indonesian girl living in nipa hut on a remote island can tell you exactly who is dating who and trivial information such as what their last relationship fallout was all about.  The difference between the musical icons of today, and those of twenty years or so ago, is the reason for their celebrity status, which does not necessarily have to do with songwriting ability or musicianship.  Back in the day, a popular artist would write songs, record albums, perform in front of thousands of fans and, of course, host notorious backstage parties that sometimes leaked to the tabloids. But they also had private lives and were able to take vacations away from the public eye.  Although the paparazzi have existed since the birth of Hollywood, the power of the media has grown exponentially with the advent of the Internet, social media, smart phones and entertainment programs that cater to people’s vicarious instincts.  The result is that the lives of these ‘artists’ are often continuously on display for the public to see, observe and judge. Yet, aside from technological advances, there is a darker reason for this trend.

However, before we go there, there is another phenomenon worth examining: The average age of music performers has dropped considerably over the past few decades. No doubt, record companies have found it far easier to exploit young performers in the 15 – 21 age group. And why not? They have not lived long enough to cultivate a strong artistic drive, experiential base or standard of reference for what constitutes a healthy adult life. That also explains why most popular performers behave like such oddballs in their private life. They react similar to toddlers who do things that they know are wrong, blatantly in front of their parents, in order to test their boundaries.  They want to be free from the confines of people’s expectations of what they should do and, as a result, they behave recklessly.  Up until now, the public has remained plugged into to the lives of music celebrities much like one would follow their favorite soap opera or sports team.  Furthermore, it appears that the people were more interested in news regarding club altercations or DUI’s rather than the actual music, a telling acknowledgement that the person lacked any lasting artisitc merits worth discussing.

Now, let’s get to the heart of the matter. There are a growing number of people who recognize that something is missing from the modern music performer.  Most people are now aware of the hidden assembly behind a commercial singer, including songwriters, artist & repertoire staff (A&R), producers, engineers, marketers and others who work together to create the commercial product.  Independent songwriters write the songs, A&R managers find those songs by posting notices in industry trades, the producers pick the best ones (often out of thousands) and together with an engineer, record the singer’s version. If the instrumentation of a song is out of date, they throw in some slick new electronic sounds and make sure the vocal tracks are pitch-corrected to perfection. Many commercial artists refuse to allow anyone except the engineer in their recording sessions. It’s little wonder why. The whole machinery depends upon the illusion that this ‘artist’ somehow lived the experiences, passionately wrote about them, sat with a piano or guitar to compose the song and then sang it. The precise opposite is now true. Some unknown songwriter out there lived the experience, wrote about it, composed the music and even sang it first. But that unknown songwriter, daunted by the risk of failure and the overt corruption of the industry, decided they were too unattractive, too poor a singer, too obese, too remote, too something to ever be liked by people. So they sold their song and their life experiences to someone they had never met in exchange for rent money.

The modern record company originated in the 1970’s as middle men between real artists and the public. In that era, before modern recording technology, the integrity and musicianship of these artists was self-evident. While the companies brought some business acumen to the table, the artist’s vision was, for the most part, respected and protected. In the decades that ensued, as profit became the main objective, corporations mistakenly began to think of themselves as the creative ‘tastemakers’ of modern music. In reality, they scrambled to chase down and capitalize on each musical trend, becoming little more than glorified banks, They muscled in on artists’ careers and demanded an ever-increasing percentage of returns.  By the turn of the century, they had completely seized control of the production process from start to finish and the product quality began to suffer noticeably. Real songwriting and musicianship has all but vanished from commercial music. Judging by the decline in music sales and the declining interest in commercial radio, the pendulum is now beginning to swing back. People are taking back their music, realizing that corporations were never, and never will be, well-suited to creating art.

An increasing number of people are shunning the roster of corporate artists in favor of high-quality, independent artists who write, produce and perform their own music. Though the number of these musician/songwriters has shrunk, thanks to nearly two decades of artistic decline, they do still exist. And they are uniquely positioned after years of songwriting and musical training to give people what they now seek- great songs played with live instruments.  Fans of these songs are not interested in perfection - they are merely asking for something real.


We caught up with Stryker, one such songwriter/musician from the group Millennium to get his thoughts:

Tell us a little about yourself and Millennium.
We’re a four-person band (bass, keyboards, guitar and drums). Our music is pop rock with both acoustic and electronic influences.

Let’s get right to it.  Do you have a bone of contention with some of today’s pop artists?
Well, I wouldn’t say that. I’m just not personally interested in listening to music that doesn’t come directly from the artist. I think that connection is everything in music. The Japanese have a word for everything else. Karaoke.

What do you do differently from the other artists?
Nowadays, it seems like everything we do is different. For starters, we write, sing, record and produce all of our own songs. I can’t name a single major label artist that does that. Also, we’ve never sold our songs to major label artists, even though we’ve had some offers.

But you do admit to using electronic software to enhance the sound of your music?
Absolutely. There have been some great advances in sound and recording technology. We love rock, but none of us are interested in recreating the rock era exactly as we remember it. We’ve changed and the world has changed too. Rock is coming back, but it’s not going to look and sound the same as we all remember it.

Is that what made you and Sapphire shift from the wireless mic’s and dancing to picking up instruments?
Oh, you’re gonna call us out like that! (laughing) Well, we’re both classically trained musicians. Sapphire played piano and I grew up playing piano, cello and bass. As Millennium, we explored the electronic pop element out of genuine artistic curiosity. But because we produce our own music, we had the freedom to shift gears when that approach was no longer hitting the mark in terms of our desired sound. Lately, with me returning to bass and Sapphire returning to piano, it just feels better musically. 

Who are the other members of Millennium?
We’re fortunate to work with two other very talented and hard working musicians, drummer Brad Dawson and guitarist Gaku Murata. Brad is the sort of drummer every group wants- impeccable timing and an impressive command of different musical styles. Gaku is a quiet guy who let’s his guitar do the talking and he can solo forever.  Both of these musicians have the type of raw talent and technical ability that sets a high bar for all of us. Damn them (laughing).

How can we get a taste of how you might sound live and completely acoustic?
That’s easy. We just released a video of us performing our new single ‘When We Walk In The Place’ live. Considering we recorded one live take (and a second pass for vocal harmonies only), I’m surprised it sounded half-decent. This is the simplest song on the album, as it is built around a single concept or feeling. Interestingly, when we translated it live with fewer instruments, it achieved more sonic complexity than the dance version. There’s something to that.

What do you think is the future of modern music?
I can’t say for sure. I just know that music is something we do purely for the love of it. I’m sure modern music will continue to change and evolve and, hopefully, we’ll continue to evolve with it. If we’re lucky, what we’re working on will resonate with people at the time. If not, I’m okay with that too. I’m not interested in fame for its own sake. I just want to be able to look in the mirror at night before I go to bed and know that I’m being true to myself.